Divinely Designed Family: A Quiz

 

When you hear the term "devoted family" what comes to mind?

Do you picture caring people, considerate of family members and "devoted" to God? 

Our Lord designed the family unit to be a loving, need-fulfillment center. The healthy Christian home is the ideal haven to learn the indispensable traits of repentance, forgiveness, justice, grace, trust, intimacy, communication, evangelism (Gospel-sharing), and the establishment of individual and interdependent purposes. A faith-filled family strives to imitate the heavenly Father's commitment to his adopted children (I John 3:1).

The interdependent functions of a Christian family serve as a model for the local congregation, and also the whole Church in the Body of Christ.  The same Spirit-fruits (Galatians 5:22) are blessings to be pursued in each: the community of all believers, the local church and the primary family unit. Stable, spiritually-growing families will be better able to serve the church with their time, talent and treasures.  Conversely, the local church will be better able to serve the families who are grounded in the Word and committed to Christ. 

Healthy families are a source of comfort, guidance, identity (giving roles and function), affirmation, and interaction among its members. Children need love, empathy, respect, responsibility, and emotional access to their parents, as well as a growing sense of their priceless worth in Christ. A healthy life includes a balance of work and play, socializing and solitude, helping ourselves and assisting others. The family unit works as a learning lab that demonstrates the value of these habits.  What traits does your home strive to teach? 

 

On a scale of 1 to 10 (10 being best) rate your family's strengths:

 

1.  We are committed to spending time with one another.

2. We talk and listen respectfully to individuals’ goals, fears and       opinions.

3.  We try to eat at least one daily meal together.

4. Our family rituals and customs (game playing, story reading, prayers   etc.) add to our sense of oneness.

5. We gently help each other to cope with individual or group problems.

6. Each member's spiritual, emotional, physical and intellectual health   is nourished and purposely encouraged.

7.  We affirm and appreciate each other's gifts, efforts, and unique   personality.

 

Add up your numbers. 

A score in the 7 - 24 total range indicates that improvement is needed in your home situation. (But you already knew that, right? Pray and ask for encouragement from a Christian friend, or counselor.)  The range of 25 - 39 reflects a slightly lower than average support system.  Acknowledging this is step one in your family’s task of goal setting.  A 40 - 59 score reflects a considerate, loving family with lots of blessings to build on. Pat yourself on the back if your score tops 60!  You provide consistent nurture and balance by meeting group and individual needs in your home.  Other families would benefit from your mentoring!

 

Don't let a low score discourage you. Instead, using the following passages, ask God to help you use the results for family discussion and goal-setting.

 

 

Leviticus 19:32

Psalm 68:4-6

Psalm 78:5-7

Proverbs 6:20-23

I Timothy 5:8

Ephesians 4: 15-16, 29

Ephesians 5:1-2

Colossians 3:13

Hebrews 10:23,24

 

 

Please let us know your family’s response to this Scripture study activity. Your application ideas and results may be just the spark needed to encourage other devoted families.