When you hear the term "devoted family" what comes to mind? Do you picture
caring people, considerate of family members and "devoted" to God? Does your family
want to reflect this image?
Christian parents want their children to love and follow Jesus Christ. Including home worship as a priority in your family shows your commitment to God and to your loved ones. Amazingly, worship is something we can teach our children that they will continue to do in heaven!
As you read through the following encouragements, tricks, tools and ideas, pray that the LORD will use them to nurture your family's spiritual growth.
“Live in a right way in undivided devotion to the Lord.”
I Corinthians 7:35
THE FAMILY -- GOD'S WAY
The Old Testament teaches that the Creator of the wonder-filled universe purposefully designed marriage and the family. In Genesis (8:20) Noah led his family in worship, and Abraham (Genesis 18:19) taught his household the "way of the LORD." Joshua (24:15) spoke of his family's devotion to God's service. Psalm 78:1-7 declares the importance and purpose of teaching children "the praiseworthy deeds of the LORD." In New Testament times, Paul went "from house to house" (Acts 20:20) teaching and baptizing families. Even Jesus was raised in a family where he "grew in wisdom and stature (in mind and body) and in favor with God (spiritually) and man (in relationships[1])." Luke 2:52. Reformer Martin Luther recognized the family as a vocation in which each member has its divinely ordained calling.
God gives parents the incomparable responsibility of raising children, "in the training and instruction of the Lord" (Ephesians 6:4). Yet is this the main goal of most, even Christian, families? Have households merely become self-serve stations where people run in, refuel and run out? And what "fuel" is being pumped? TV sit-coms or spiritual truths? Videogame philosophies or real sustenance for the soul? Because of sin and Satan, the home that should be a peaceful school of maturation, often turns into a war zone for personal demands and territory. Home worship is one way we can strengthen our spiritual armor for this struggle.
The Lord designed the family unit to be a loving, need-fulfillment center. The healthy Christian home is the ideal haven to learn the indispensable traits of repentance, forgiveness, justice, grace, trust, intimacy, communication, evangelism (Gospel-sharing), and the establishment of individual and interdependent purposes. A faith-filled family strives to imitate the heavenly Father's commitment to his adopted children. [2] (I John 3:1).
The interdependent functions of a Christian family serve as a model for the local congregation, and also the whole Church in the Body of Christ. The same Spirit-fruits (Galatians 5:22 [3]) are blessings to be pursued in each: the community of all believers, the local church and the primary family unit. Stable, spiritually-growing families will be better able to serve the church with their time, talent and treasures. Conversely, the local church will be better able to serve the families who are grounded in the Word and committed to Christ. The most intimate of human bonds (marriage) is to mirror Jesus and His bride, the Church.[4] This picture language leaves us without excuse for disregarding God’s will for our relationships.
ESSENTIAL INGREDIENTS
Strong families are a source of comfort, guidance, identity (giving roles and function), affirmation, and interaction among its members. Children need love, empathy, respect, responsibility, and emotional access to their parents, as well as a growing sense of their priceless worth in Christ. A healthy life includes a balance of work and play, socializing and solitude, helping ourselves and assisting others. The family unit works as a learning lab that demonstrates the value of these habits. What traits does your home actively teach?
On a scale of 1 to 10 (10 being best) rate your family's strengths:
1. We are committed to spending time with one another.
2. We talk and listen respectfully to individuals’ goals, fears and opinions.
3. We try to eat at least one daily meal together.
4. Our family rituals and customs (game playing, story reading, prayers etc.) add to our sense of oneness.
5. We gently help each other to cope with individual or group problems.
6. Each member's spiritual, emotional, physical and intellectual health is nourished and monitored.
7. We affirm and appreciate each other's gifts, efforts and unique personality.
Add up your numbers.
A score in the 7 - 24 total range indicates that improvement is needed in your home situation. (But you already knew that, right?) The range of 25 - 39 reflects a slightly lower than average support system. Acknowledging this is step one in your family’s task of goal setting. A 40 - 59 score reflects a considerate, loving family with lots of blessings to build on. Pat yourself on the back if your score tops 60! You provide consistent nurture and balance by meeting group and individual needs in your home. Other families would benefit from your mentoring!
(DISCLAIMER: Don't let a low score discourage you. Instead, ask God to help you use the results for family discussion and goal-setting.)
YOUR TURN: A BIBLICAL PRESCRIPTION
Look up the following passages and list the attributes and actions of families who follow God's design:
Leviticus 19:32
Psalm 68:4-6
Psalm 78:5-7
Proverbs 6:20-23
Ruth 1:15-16
I Timothy 5:8
II Timothy 1:5-6
Ephesians 4: 15-16, 29
Ephesians 5:1-2
Colossians 3:13
Hebrews 10:23,24
This is the first post of nine regarding home worship activities. If you find them valuable, please pass it on to parents, grandparents and anyone who may need encouragement in influencing faith in children.
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